How to be real in a relationship
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I regret **my** behaviour in a relationship if I don't integrate all these aspects.

<img class="image-padding-small" style="background-color: transparent;" src="/img/real-relationship.webp" alt="Venn diagram of conviction, agreeableness, and love. Conviction and agreeableness without love are hollow; conviction and love without agreeableness are toxic; agreeableness and love without conviction make a pushover. The intersection of all three is integrated.">

Importantly, relationships should [evolve out of this single-person diagram](https://www.henrikkarlsson.xyz/p/making-a-home-together).