2026-10-28

How to be real in a relationship

I regret my behaviour in a relationship if I don’t integrate all these aspects.

Venn diagram of conviction, agreeableness, and love. Conviction and agreeableness without love are hollow; conviction and love without agreeableness are toxic; agreeableness and love without conviction make a pushover. The intersection of all three is integrated.

Importantly, relationships should evolve out of this single-person diagram.